The discovery of an affair will attack you with shock, anger and
numbness. No matter what way you choose to react, your surroundings will
look the same afterwards because you have not yet started coping with
what has transpired. You find that you are suddenly lost due to being
caught off guard. You never thought this would happen to you. So when it
does, what should you do when this painful truth is revealed and how
can you forgive it?
The first thing to do when you find out that your partner has been
cheating is to allow your emotions to flow out of your body. Holding
your feelings in will only make you feel worse and cause a tremendous
amount of stress both physically and mentally. Once you have expressed
your instant reaction, you can start thinking more slowly and
rationally. You will start examining your relationship, wondering where
it went wrong and if it was ever as wonderful as you claimed it to be.
You will create a chain of questions that have not yet been answered and
will start feeling farther and farther away from getting any of them
answered. Everything will be sorted out time, but first thing is first
and that is getting your emotions sorted out.
Once your emotions have been expressed and sorted out, it is
important to remember to not give the affair more power over your life
than it deserves, even though at the time being, it feels like the end
of the world. The fact of the matter is, it is not the end of the world,
but has changed your world and the way you look at it, which is
understandable. Know that your partner's affair has nothing to do with
his or her love for you, nor does it make you a failure in
relationships. What the affair does tell you though, is that there are
essential issues that need to be addressed. It is normal to be angry and
unable to calmly discuss this with your partner, so let him or her know
that (without getting violent or throwing them out of course). Let him
or her know that you are deeply hurt and angry that they chose an affair
as a way to deal with the issues in your relationship and you are not
ready to talk about it just yet.
When you are ready, where do you start? It will be difficult to focus
on the discussion if you are torturing yourself with visual thoughts of
the cheating act. Make an effort to be strong and avoid the unnecessary
painful thoughts that will in no way make you feel better or get your
relationship back on track. You know what goes on when two people are
intimate, so save yourself the details you already know and spare
yourself the hurt. The focus is to find and establish the reasons for
the affair and ways you can move on with your lives together, with a new
and improved affair proof relationship. Good communication will be the
key to your road to recovery, so be sure to ask the right questions,
listen with undivided attention and understanding, as well as answering
the questions you are asked and finding suitable solutions on how to
prevent the same event in the future.
Kamis, 31 Mei 2012
'I love you” in 50 different languages
I love you ... There are many things that you can
use to make sure that you will make the person near you feel loved, but
the best among all of them is to simply tell him or her, 3 simple words –
“ I love you”. Furthermore, if you manage to learn the 50 different
ways to say I love you, you will be able to make really pleasant
surprise
for your partner. If you do not know how to do that, here I will help
you in order to find some of the most common translations of the phrase
“I love you” in 50 different languages. “I love you” can sound like
this:
1. I love you in Bulgarian – Obicham te ;
2. in Belarusian – Ya tabe kahayu ;
3. in Bangla – Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi ;
4. in Cantonese Chinese – Ngo oiy ney a ;
5. I love you in Catalan – T`estimo ;
6. in Cheyenne – Ne mohotatse ;
7. in Chichewa – Ndimakukonda ;
8. in Creole – Mi aime jou ;
9. in Croatian – Volim te ;
10. I love you in Czech – Miluji te ;
11. in Danish – Jeg elsker dig ;
12. in Dutch - Ik hou van jou ;
13. in Esperanto – Mi amas vin ;
14. in Estonian – Ma armastan sind ;
15. I love you in Ethiopian – Afgreki` ;
16. in Farsi – Doset daram ;
17. in Filipino – Mahal kita ;
18. in Finnish –Mina rakastan sinua ;
19. in French – Je t`aime/ Je t`adore ;
20. I love you in German – Ich liebe dich ;
21. in Greek – S`agapau ;
22. in Gujarati – Hoo thunay prem karoo choo ;
23. in Hawaiian – Aloha wau ia oi ;
24. in Hebrew – Ani ohev otah (to female) and Ani ohev et otha (to male) ;
25. I love you in Hindi – Hum tumhe pyar karte hae ;
26. in Hmong – Kuv hlub koj ;
27. in Hopi – Nu` umi unangwa`ta ;
28. in Hungarn – Szeretlek ;
29. in Icelansic – Eg elska tig ;
30. in Indonesian – Saya cinta padamu ;
31. in Irish – Taim i`ngra leat ;
32. in Italian – Ti amo ;
33. I love you in Japanese – Aishiteru ;
34. in Kannada – Naanu ninna preetisuttene ;
35. in Korean – Sarang heyo ;
36. in Latin – Te amo ;
37. in Latvian – Es tevi miilu ;
38. in Malay – Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu ;
39. in Mandarin Chinese – Wo ai ni ;
40. in Navaho – Ayor anosh`ni ;
41. in Norwegian – Jeg elsker dek ;
42. in Persian – Doo-set daaram ;
43. in Pig Latin – Lay ovlay ouyay ;
44. in Polish – Kocham Ciebie ;
45. in Portuguese – Eu tea mo ;
46. in Romanian – Te ubesk ;
47. in Russian – Ya tebya liubliu ;
48. I love you in Serbian – Volim te ;
49. in Slovenian – Ljubim te ;
50. in Spanish – Te quiero / Te amo .
So, now you can make a surprise to your girlfriend/boyfriend, to your mother, father, to your best friend or to someone else, who you whish. That way you will make the person that you are in love with, feel a lot better. The reason for that is the fact that when you manage to tell someone, I love you, that you really love him or her in 50 different ways, he or she will see that you really love the person. Remember that to make sure that you will keep the love alive you will have to make everything possible to make some small surprises each day and there is no better present than to tell someone “I love you”.
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for your partner. If you do not know how to do that, here I will help
you in order to find some of the most common translations of the phrase
“I love you” in 50 different languages. “I love you” can sound like
this:1. I love you in Bulgarian – Obicham te ;
2. in Belarusian – Ya tabe kahayu ;
3. in Bangla – Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi ;
4. in Cantonese Chinese – Ngo oiy ney a ;
5. I love you in Catalan – T`estimo ;
6. in Cheyenne – Ne mohotatse ;
7. in Chichewa – Ndimakukonda ;
8. in Creole – Mi aime jou ;
9. in Croatian – Volim te ;
10. I love you in Czech – Miluji te ;
11. in Danish – Jeg elsker dig ;
12. in Dutch - Ik hou van jou ;
13. in Esperanto – Mi amas vin ;
14. in Estonian – Ma armastan sind ;
15. I love you in Ethiopian – Afgreki` ;
16. in Farsi – Doset daram ;
17. in Filipino – Mahal kita ;
18. in Finnish –Mina rakastan sinua ;
19. in French – Je t`aime/ Je t`adore ;
20. I love you in German – Ich liebe dich ;
21. in Greek – S`agapau ;
22. in Gujarati – Hoo thunay prem karoo choo ;
23. in Hawaiian – Aloha wau ia oi ;
24. in Hebrew – Ani ohev otah (to female) and Ani ohev et otha (to male) ;
25. I love you in Hindi – Hum tumhe pyar karte hae ;
26. in Hmong – Kuv hlub koj ;
27. in Hopi – Nu` umi unangwa`ta ;
28. in Hungarn – Szeretlek ;
29. in Icelansic – Eg elska tig ;
30. in Indonesian – Saya cinta padamu ;
31. in Irish – Taim i`ngra leat ;
32. in Italian – Ti amo ;
33. I love you in Japanese – Aishiteru ;
34. in Kannada – Naanu ninna preetisuttene ;
35. in Korean – Sarang heyo ;
36. in Latin – Te amo ;
37. in Latvian – Es tevi miilu ;
38. in Malay – Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu ;
39. in Mandarin Chinese – Wo ai ni ;
40. in Navaho – Ayor anosh`ni ;
41. in Norwegian – Jeg elsker dek ;
42. in Persian – Doo-set daaram ;
43. in Pig Latin – Lay ovlay ouyay ;
44. in Polish – Kocham Ciebie ;
45. in Portuguese – Eu tea mo ;
46. in Romanian – Te ubesk ;
47. in Russian – Ya tebya liubliu ;
48. I love you in Serbian – Volim te ;
49. in Slovenian – Ljubim te ;
50. in Spanish – Te quiero / Te amo .
So, now you can make a surprise to your girlfriend/boyfriend, to your mother, father, to your best friend or to someone else, who you whish. That way you will make the person that you are in love with, feel a lot better. The reason for that is the fact that when you manage to tell someone, I love you, that you really love him or her in 50 different ways, he or she will see that you really love the person. Remember that to make sure that you will keep the love alive you will have to make everything possible to make some small surprises each day and there is no better present than to tell someone “I love you”.
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Love Is The Greatest Feeling In The Whole World.
Love Is The Greatest Feeling In The Whole World.
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world. When you are in love, you see mainly the positive sides of the
character of the person, you are in love with. Everyone wonder sometimes
what the reasons I love you are. However, each one of the persons has
different reasons, but some of the most common among all of them are: 1. One of the reasons I love you is the way you make me feel alive, because that is the most important thing for one person. 2. Another one of the reasons I love you is that you have trust in me, because one couple can’t survive a long time without it. 3. I love you, because you are faithful.  4. I love the way you talk. 5. I love you, because you are one of the most intelligent people I know. 6. When you hug me, I feel safe. 7. I am in love with your green eyes, because when you look at me I feel loved. 8. Another one of the reasons I love you is the fact that you know how to be a real man. 9. I love you, because you are my best friend. 10. I am in love with you, because when I need you, you are by me and when I need help, you will help me immediately. 11. One of the reasons I love you is the way that you kiss and touch me. 12. I love you, because you can forgive. 13. Another one of the reasons I love you is your optimism. 14. I love you, because you can always make me laugh or smile even when I don’t want to. 15. I love your gentleness with me. 16. I am in love with you, because you are so nice.  17. One of the reasons I love you is the fact that you take care of me. 18. I love the way you smile. 19. I love you, because you are awesome to my mom and dad, and my brother and even my dog and how they all love you so much. 20. Another one of the reasons I love you is the fact that I learn new things about you every day. 21. I love you, because you let me in your life and your heart. 22. I am in love with you, because you give me a presents without a reason. 23. I love your honesty. 24. One of the reasons I love you is your perfect body. 25. I love you, because of your charm and charisma. 26. I love your strong hands. 27. Another one of the reasons I love you, because of your aspiration to achieve success in your life. 28. I love you, because I am in your plans for the feature. 29. I love you, because you always bring out the best in me. 30. I am in love with you, because you always look for and find the positive in everything. 31. One of the reasons I love you is the fact that you always tell and show me every day how much you love me. 32. Another one of the reasons I love you is that I can be myself when I am with you. 33. You are never boring. 34. We can talk about everything. 35. I love you, because you are the light of my life. 36. I am in love with you, because you are the most beautiful thing in my life. 37. One of the reasons I love you is that every time I look at you, my heart misses a beat. 38. I love to hear your voice. 39. I love your smell. 40. I love you, because when you are with me everything seems possible. 41. Another one of the reasons I love you is the fact that you help me with everything. 42. I am in love with you, because you make me feel like I have never felt before. 43. I love you, because you always respect my decisions and are always behind me. 44. I love that we can talk for hours about nothing. 45. I love the way your body moves when we kiss. 46. One of the reasons I love you is that I can feel your love in the warmth of your touch, because it touch my heart and my soul. 47. Another one of the reasons I love you is that every night, when we go to sleep, you hug me. google.co.id |
Receive Personal and Expert Relationship
First off, it is important to ask yourself what you
consider a real relationship to be. You need to understand what your
needs and desires are from another person, and what you are willing to
give them. This way, you can see early in your first dates, if you wish
to continue and work towards a future together, and if the other person
feels the same of course (both sides count).
Once you have decided to have an official relationship, you both need
to remember what brought the two of you together in the first place.
For instance, what attracted you to each other both physically and
emotionally? What do you admire about his or her personality? This will
help not taking the other for granted, which can often happen after two
people have been together for a long time. This does not mean the love
is fading, but it does mean that there is lack of effort. People tend to
get lazy after a while, because they feel comfortable and safe. This
problem can be solved when both people are willing to make the time and
effort. Read also our Love Pullution article. Everyone is independent in their own beliefs and ideas about things, so never expect a person to always see things your way. However, it is important to have similar expectations out of a relationship, if you wish to avoid frequent arguments. Look for things like whether or not it is important for the both of you to see each other everyday, or have sex often. While seeing each other on a daily basis seems wonderful and healthy to some people, others may feel smothered and need space to have some alone time. Or if sex is on the top of your list, but is not on your partners, you might want to consider that, unless you do not mind waiting or taking care of yourself once in a while depending on how long you have to wait!
Patience is one of the main keys to a healthy relationship. There are times when our partner will not respond in a way in which is pleasing to us, but this does not mean we have to take it so seriously or personally. Always slow down, take a deep breath and think of reasons why your partner may be acting a certain way. Assuming and jumping to conclusions is always an unhealthy step to take because it shows your partner that they are not entitled to act freely and they feel attacked, not to mention it shows that you automatically assume the worst of them. Give your partner some time and let them know that you will be there for them when they are ready to talk. No matter what the situation may be, patience is golden in a relationship, unless your partner never wants to discuss matters with you (which would mean you need counseling or leave the relationship).
Honesty is also at the top of everyone's list when it comes to what people want out of a relationship. A person needs to know that they can trust their mate because it builds a zone of safety and comfortableness around them. They need to know that they can at least rely on their loving partner to tell them the truth, no matter what. Being human means NOT being perfect, which means we will make mistakes. Now, we should not let that fact lead us to making mistakes we already know are wrong ahead of time. If your partner deliberately makes mistakes or you knowingly make mistakes, it shows that you or your partner lacks respect and care for the other. This is unhealthy for the relationship. What is healthy however, is realizing that the mistake you committed is a mistake. You or your partner need to know that what they did was wrong and they need to feel the sympathy for what they did. Once you or partner have realized this, you can then figure out a way of how you will confess your wrong doings to the other.
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Actions Affect Feelings
Now that you're feeling so warmly toward the entire human race, how can you deepen your love for someone? The way God created us, actions affect our feelings most. For example, if you want to become more compassionate, thinking compassionate thoughts may be a start, but giving tzedaka (charity) will get you there. Likewise, the best way to feel loving is to be loving ― and that means giving.
While most people believe love leads to giving, the truth (as Rabbi Eliyahu Dessler writes in his famous discourse on loving kindness) is exactly the opposite: Giving leads to love.
What is giving? When an enthusiastic handyman happily announces to his non- mechanically inclined wife, "Honey, wait till you see what I got you for your birthday ― a triple-decker toolbox!" that's not giving. Neither is a father's forcing violin lessons on his son because he himself always dreamed of being a virtuoso.
True giving, as Erich Fromm points out, is other-oriented, and requires four elements. The first is care, demonstrating active concern for the recipient's life and growth. The second is responsibility, responding to his or her expressed and unexpressed needs (particularly, in an adult relationship, emotional needs). The third is respect, "the ability to see a person as he [or she] is, to be aware of his [or her] unique individuality," and, consequently, wanting that person to "grow and unfold as he [or she] is."
These three components all depend upon the fourth, knowledge. You can care for, respond to, and respect another only as deeply as you know him or her.
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friendship
A lot of people go through life with only a few friends. It seems that
some have less than that. They have no one on whom they can call in good
times or bad. There is no one with whom to bounce ideas around, or to
talk about deep and troubling subjects. They have no one to call in
times of need or difficulty. They are at the mercy of life, standing
alone.
Others seem to have a multitude of friends. Wherever they go, people
know them, and like to be around them. Should trouble strike, their
biggest hesitation might be over which friend to call. They know exactly
the person with whom to discuss the topics of inquiry and debate. Life
is full of entertaining and invigorating relationships because it is
full of friends.
There ought to be a course in school on friendship. Of course, some
people are perfectly happy to operate with fewer friends. They might
rather have a few deep and loyal friends, than many superficial ones.
Others thrive best when friends are everywhere and numerous. It is not
so much the number of friends that is important as is the possession of
friends, period.
Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. Friends can cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed. Friends can challenge us when we allow ourselves to get beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends can motivate us when we’re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart. They are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share life’s pleasant and memorable moments. We often just want them around to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In how many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for? Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily.
It is safe to say that when God created the world and all the majestic
things in it, when he streaked the heavens with radiant color and the
earth with grand mountains and awe-inspiring canyons, when he painted
the plains with waving grasses and erected noble forests of towering
trees, he outdid it all by creating friends. Why not take a moment or
two and thank someone today for being a friend to you?
May God bless you with all the friends you need, and may he turn you into a blessing by using you as a friend to others.
Curly Hair Care Tips
Curly hair care tips. Curly
hair have different types. Big curly hair, curly frizzy curls up like a
sausage that is very circular. Because various types of this, curly hair
has a lot of problems because every person has a curly pattern that is
different.
According YouBeauty, experts do not know clearly why there are many types of hair. Curly hair care tips too different. But definitely, the shape of your hair follicle curly-haired, has a bag of curly hair and also hair protein (keratin) that exist in the base of the hair will affect your hair type. All hair types will grow twisted, whatever your hair type. Will get curly hair if its wave number is growing.
The owners of curly hair is highly recommended to maintain the hair moisture. In order for curly hair more smooth and gentle to use a deep conditioning treatment twice a month. If your hair is dry, do not wash too often, try to only twice a week.
Be careful Drying
You must be careful to handle curly hair. Avoid using too coarse towel when drying your hair or wrap your hair with a towel to absorb the excess water wash.
"Curly hair must be dried slowly, but if your schedule is too dense for it, wipe with a soft towel and make sure your hair does not fall apart when rubbed," advises celebrity stylist Kristan Serafino. "If curly hair is touched with the rough - or worse combed - will cause your natural curly hair matted instead."
Citing Conectique, you should dry the hair with your fingers, with or without a fan. The result will make the hair become more organized and flexible.
Do not touch
When using curl enhancer products like cream, gel or mousse, follow the pattern of your hair curly, rotate from the middle to the ends of your hair, advice Serafino. "When hair is dry, then you should apply new silicone serum on the ends of your hair to soften curly pattern and make it more shiny," he added.
Once laid out, do not touch your hair again because the more you play, your hair will actually grow tangled. Thus curly hair care tips, may be useful for you.
sumber : google.co.id
According YouBeauty, experts do not know clearly why there are many types of hair. Curly hair care tips too different. But definitely, the shape of your hair follicle curly-haired, has a bag of curly hair and also hair protein (keratin) that exist in the base of the hair will affect your hair type. All hair types will grow twisted, whatever your hair type. Will get curly hair if its wave number is growing.
Curly hair care tips
Keep the humidityThe owners of curly hair is highly recommended to maintain the hair moisture. In order for curly hair more smooth and gentle to use a deep conditioning treatment twice a month. If your hair is dry, do not wash too often, try to only twice a week.
Be careful Drying
You must be careful to handle curly hair. Avoid using too coarse towel when drying your hair or wrap your hair with a towel to absorb the excess water wash.
"Curly hair must be dried slowly, but if your schedule is too dense for it, wipe with a soft towel and make sure your hair does not fall apart when rubbed," advises celebrity stylist Kristan Serafino. "If curly hair is touched with the rough - or worse combed - will cause your natural curly hair matted instead."
Citing Conectique, you should dry the hair with your fingers, with or without a fan. The result will make the hair become more organized and flexible.
Do not touch
When using curl enhancer products like cream, gel or mousse, follow the pattern of your hair curly, rotate from the middle to the ends of your hair, advice Serafino. "When hair is dry, then you should apply new silicone serum on the ends of your hair to soften curly pattern and make it more shiny," he added.
Once laid out, do not touch your hair again because the more you play, your hair will actually grow tangled. Thus curly hair care tips, may be useful for you.
sumber : google.co.id
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